Grow Up Safe -- Talk About Sex and Sexuality
Despite feelings of embarrassment, most children are usually curious about the topic of sex. Of course, their interest and understanding levels will vary, depending on age and maturity level. But at all ages, it's important that they have a source for clear, honest, and accurate information and answers to their questions.
By establishing open lines of communication early and continuing to share important information about sexual issues as he or she matures, your child is more likely to make informed and responsible decisions about sex and relationships.
Take advantage of teachable moments to start a conversation, such as learning of a friend's pregnancy, reading about a current event, or watching a TV program.
By talking to your children about the risks and responsibilities of being sexually active, it's likely that they'll postpone sexual activity and won't engage in risky behavior. They also are more likely to take precautions to avoid the serious and sometimes fatal consequences of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). However, avoid using scare tactics as a way to stop young people from having sex; studies have shown that this approach is ineffective.
Avoiding the topic also can be risky. Ignorance and unresolved curiosity about sex often lead to sexual behaviors that can result in STIs, unintended pregnancy, and sexual abuse, all of which can have a serious impact on your child's health and well-being for years to come.
